Polyamorous sex coach ‘Tantric Witch’ uses guided masturbation circles to help people love themselves

”I perform sex magic to help transform relationships”

Meet the Tantric Witch, the polyamorous somatic sex coach teaching people to love themselves using guided masturbation circles and yoni massage.

Victoria Louise Smith is a somatic sex coach from England. With a Bachelor degree in counselling and coaching, the 27 year old now lives and practices on the Gold Coast, Australia.

The self proclaimed Tantric Witch aims to improve her clients relationship with themselves and others by making changes on a cellular level through the body along with her partner Danny, 26, with whom she is in a polyamorous relationship.

Victoria the Tantric Witch

The couple host self pleasure workshops teaching people to explore their sexuality and learn to become in tune with their bodily desires and sensations.

Victoria and Danny and another partner

“Come and help rid our society of shame and taboo around sexuality and come back to your own erotic innocence”

For around $65 Australian Dollars Victoria verbally guides the circle through a masturbation session, on occasion she performs physical demonstrations. The attendees are advised to bring oil, a towel, a blanket and a sarong.

Victoria and one of her self pleasure circle groups

There are both mixed and single gender sessions, women and men between the ages of 21 and 80 enter into the circles and learn to pleasure themselves with the aim of becoming more comfortable with their bodies, learning to connect to others and transform their relationships.

“I help others find freedom through sexuality”

There are a range of benefits of the self pleasure sessions. Group masturbation can strengthen the bond between the women and their yoni (vaginas) and help them learn about pleasure.

Victoria taking a dip

For some, the sessions help them access profound orgasmic states, and can also help to awaken erectile tissue for more pleasure during sex.

Some experience a therapeutic element to the circles, helping them to heal from past sexual violations.

The process can also help transform peoples uncomfortable emotional states into more positive and wholesome emotions.

Victoria and Danny

One of the aims of the pleasure circle is to help people attract and obtain partners who can satisfy them sexually and emotionally.

Victoria tells us the feedback from the circles is that it leaves people feeling

“more comfortable in their skin and they’re sex lives have improved”

“they are able to call in partners that appreciate them and know their worth.”

Victoria found herself drawn to working in this profession after healing her own sexuality following an abusive relationship. She now works with people who suffer from a range of conditions relating to sexual trauma, sexual dysfunction and others who are simply interested in pleasure expansion.


The qualified sex coach also provides yoni massage to women with the aim of creating positive and healthy energy to enable healing. The personal massage works when combined with tantric massage on the whole body to help women reach a heightened level of sexuality.

It is not a sexual service but one aimed at healing and sexual growth by helping women discover the depth of the link between the yoni and their emotions.

The Tantric Witch shares images of masturbation circles on her Instagram as well as positive messages about the freedom of sexuality and also educational posts about sex in general.

When asked what advice she has for anyone that wants to learn more about Somatic sex coaching and tantric sex she tells us

“Get a coach, and stay committed to the journey. Tantric embodiment doesn’t happen over night.”

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